Мои мысли.

[Diana1]

Have you ever noticed that the most dirty words in any language are connected to sex and its activities, and at the same time the words for innocence and purity have always been related to virginity? It is quite interesting and fascinating, isn't?

No doubt the sex having exclusively negative impact on the individuality of each human being and on the well being of the whole civilization in the result. The valuable reason against the sex would be that it affects every person in very similar way as drugs affect addicts socially and physically. The difference between external and internal drugs is just that internal drugs released by the human system are endogenous. And as all alike drugs causes endogenous intoxication bringing a feeling of a high for a short period of time, then eventually the experience of troubling emotions through the decrease of the drug's stimulation in the blood stream, and the further craving for the next dose of sex in order to feel stable emotionally and physically.

Obviously some instincts play a major role in the matter of the sexual drive. Primitive instincts of a human being dominate over brain and mind of the person, and as a result turn the potentially intellectual person into a primitive animal. The system of priorities goes through deformation. The urge to obtain a new dose of the drug forces people to all kinds of senseless mistakes, complicated deceptions and cruel crime. Sex often ruins friendships, stimulates distressing lies and unfair games. Needless to say, sex is not as harmless for one's health as it is commonly believed, and it can cause some other health problems beside the infectious diseases. For example, sex activities can result in a cystitis, a varicosity and a prostatitis. Also, there are a few scientific reports that indicate the sex can actually shorten the human's lifespan.

While sex can take many forms, problems are defined as any physical or emotional issue that prevents a human being from achieving a constant self-improvement through intellectual self-development. People consciously are willing to sacrifice what they are capable to accomplish most in order to preserve and continue their unhealthy way of self-deterioration.

Just imagine if all of the energy and the time that the humanity wastes on the satisfaction of the pseudo-need for sex would be used in more valuable areas, the civilization would achieve much more success over all, and there would be a fewer destructive conflicts between individuals and social groups, which would certainly sooner set a peace around the world.

P.S I have used some parts of the existing FAQ to write this text.

[Diana1]

"Не привязывайтесь к личности, хотя бы к самой любимой,- каждая личность есть тюрьма, а также угол.
Не привязывайтесь к отечеству, хотя бы оно было страждующим и нуждающимся в помощи.
Не прилепляйтесь к состраданию, хотя бы оно и относилось к высшим людям, исключительные мучения и беспомощность которых мы увидели случайно.
Не привязывайтесь к науке, хотя бы она влекла к себе человека драгоценнейшими и, по-видимому, для нас сбереженными находками.
Не привязывайтесь к своим собственным добродетелям и не становитесь всецело жертвою какого-нибудь одного из наших качеств.
Нужно уметь сохранять себя-сильнейшее испытание независимости."

Фридрих Ницше, из работы "По ту сторону добра и зла. Прелюдия к философии будущего."

[Diana1]

"As long as we believe that someone else has the power to make us happy then we are setting ourselves up to be victims"

Ask anyone about romance and sex relationships and they will tell you there is definitely a stress involved in maintaining these relationships. Many people recognize the troubles caused by love but failed to investigate and ponder the true nature of it. It all starts at early childhood with fairy tales where Princess and Prince live happily-ever-after. We used to grow up hearing the curious phrases "The boy meet the girl", "The boy loses a girl", "The boy gets the girl back", then it continues in movies and music where we see sweet and attractive images of couples in love, and hear praises of the love in songs. "I can't smile without you", "I can't live without you", "You are my everything" is all likely to set a great prerequisites for the toxic, addictive love- the destructive state of mind for an individual.

The closest description for the love would be a toxic paranoid psychosis. It is a particular state of mind influenced by endogenous intoxication. Amphetamines and endorphins are two main drugs that are involved in maintenance of the state of love. Endogenous amphetamines are directly involved at the acute stage of love, in phase that is often called "falling in love", and endogenous endorphins are play a drastic role in matter of the chronic stage of love, commonly known as "real love".

Amphetamine has been found to have several endogenous analogues, molecules of a similar structure found naturally in the brain. By feeling love and sexual arousal these molecules modulate levels of excitement and alertness, among other related affective states. And, finally it maltreat an individual harmfully and dangerously as regular external drugs abuse the person physically and emotionally.

Endorphins have addictive purpose in the attachment between lovers. Copulation among humans satisfies all the conditions needed to facilitate a state of co-dependency between the two partners while they release their endogenous opiates. The trouble with the particular chronic phase is that it can easily metamorphose into the acute stage. Any troubles in the relationship between lovers might provoke the need for search of a new object of love, that, in return, possibly could lead to a change of drug.

The brain has evolved a truly vicious set of invisible for a regular eye negative feedback. Their functional effect is to stop us from being truly rational. Nature is cruelly parsimonious with pleasure. The initial short-lived euphoria of a reinforcer as uniquely powerful as crack will be followed by a "crash". This involves anxiety, depression, irritability, extreme fatigue, and paranoia. Physical health deteriorate too through the lost of appetite, sleep and often interest in any other meaningful activities. As a result, constant craving for love and sex develops. Severe depressive conditions follow, agitated delirium, and also a syndrome known as toxic paranoid psychosis.

Although it is commonly believed that the chronic stage is processed calmer due the different type of endogenous drug intoxication and less produce of endorphins opiates in the blood stream, yet it is a form of the same toxic paranoid disorder with further comparable negative mental and physiological consequences.

[Diana1]

Desires are many, needs are few. Needs can be fulfilled; desires never.
A desire is a need gone crazy. It is impossible to fulfill it.
The more you try to fulfill it, the more it goes on asking and asking.

[Diana1]

"Рассудок, упорядочивая и систематизируя пространственно-временные восприятия (интуиции), посредством категории причинности улавливает объективные связи и законы. Тем не менее рассудок не идет дальше чувственного мира. Мир как представление феноменален, а это значит, что нет четкого различия между сном и бодрствованием. Просто во сне меньше последовательности, чем наяву: жизнь и сон сходны, и мы, пишет Шопенгауэр, не стыдимся признаться в этом. "Покровом Майи" названо мирское знание в Ведах и Пуранах. Люди живут, словно во сне, часто говорил Платон. Пиндару приписывают слова: "Человек — это сон о тени". Софокл сравнивал людей с призраками и легкими тенями."
Жизнь и сны, развивает эту тему Шопенгауэр, — "страницы одной книги. Нудное чтение и есть реальная жизнь. Когда обычный урочный час чтения окончен, наступает время отдыха, мы по привычке продолжаем листать книгу, открывая по воле случая то одну страницу, то другую"."

Артур Шопенгауэр, "Мир как воля и представление."

[Diana1]

"Romantic love is mental illness. But it's a pleasurable one. It's a drug. It distorts reality, and that's the point of it. It would be impossible to fall in love with someone that you really saw."
— Fran Lebowitz

[Diana1]

Based on most ordinary people's desires to love and be loved, it is often hard for them to recognize that a relationship is toxic to their lives and personalities, as human feelings and emotions can block their insights and judgements.

The desire be loved by someone else indicates the severe psychological problems and the inner void in an individual, which are typically mistaken by intention to fulfill it with the external sensations, such as love, romance and sex. The feeling of being needed by someone else, and especially - irresistibly desired, happens to a person with lack of the own inner self. An individual with low self-esteem and insecurity issues would be more likely prone to the described behaviour as desperately depend upon someone's else constant reassurance of one's actions, thoughts, beliefs, directions and purposes of the life.

The only person who need this type of inadequately pleasant estimations, which is supplied generously in co-dependent toxic relationships, is an individual who feel too uncomfortable to be identified adequately according to the actual personal characteristics. A craving to find one's "half", the love mate, points to the fact that the individual is not self-completed, self-developed or self-established, the significant essence is missing out. The core of the human being that should be formed by one's own learning, development capabilities and potentialities through the own process of assessment, reflection, and taking actions.

[Diana1]

"I do this real moron thing, it's called thinking, and I'm not a very good American because I like to form my own opinions."

"The reason I talk to myself is that I'm the only one whose answers I accept."

"If it's true that our species is alone in the universe, then I'd have to say the universe aimed rather low and settled for very little."

"Religion is just mind control."

"Religion has convinced people that there’s an invisible man…living in the sky. Who watches everything you do every minute of every day. And the invisible man has a list of ten specific things he doesn’t want you to do. And if you do any of these things, he will send you to a special place, of burning and fire and smoke and torture and anguish for you to live forever, and suffer, and burn, and scream, until the end of time. But he loves you. He loves you. He loves you and he needs money."

"When you're born you get a ticket to the freak show. When you're born in America, you get a front-row seat."

"By and large, language is a tool for concealing the truth."

"Ever notice that anyone going slower than you is an idiot, but anyone going faster is a maniac?"

"One great thing about getting old is that you can get out of all sorts of social obligations just by saying you're too tired."

"Once you leave the womb, conservatives don't care about you until you reach military age. Then you're just what they're looking for. Conservatives want live babies so they can raise them to be dead soldiers."

""One thing leads to another?" Not always. Sometimes one thing leads to the same thing. Ask an addict."

"Property is theft. Nobody "owns" anything. When you die, it all stays here."

"The future will soon be a thing of the past."

"The planet is fine. The people are messed up."

"Have you ever noticed that the lawyer always smiles more than the client?"

"If a man smiles all the time, he's probably selling something that doesn't work."

"Most people work just hard enough not to get fired and get paid just enough money not to quit."

"When you think about it, attention-deficit order makes a lot of sense. In this country there isn't a lot worth paying attention to."

"History is not happenstance: it is conspiratorial. Carefully planned and executed by people in power."

"Civilization? "Uncivilized" people around the world have always ended up being screwed by "civilized" people. So who is really civilized?"

George Carlin.

[Diana1]

Самый верный враг - это твой, так называемый, друг! (мое)

Вывод: лучше таковых aka друзей не иметь!!!

[Diana1]

«Распространенное психическое заболевание, которое люди именуют любовью, не имеет надо мной никакой власти. Если человек считает себя лучшим существом во Вселенной, это называют паранойей. А если он считает, что лучшее существо во Вселенной — это особь противоположного пола, это называют любовью» (YuN).

[Diana1]

Нашла в сети про меня...



Свобода и уединение для человека дороже всего!

[Diana1]

"Собака, если ее позвать, прибежит; кошка - примет к сведению." (Мэри Блай)

Перефразирую:

Если вы бросите палку, пустую кость, или какую другую игрушку, то собака побежит и поспешит доставить вам ее; если вы проделаете те же самые действия ко отношению к кошке, то онa заметит и примет к сведению ваш поступок, но не принесет вам игрушки, а проигнорирует вас.

[Diana1]

"Я давно понял, что не стоит бороться со свиньями. Можно испачкаться, и, к тому же, доставить им удовольствие."

/Бернард Шоу/

[Diana1]

"Господам сидящим в дерьме (aka сексофилам) очень неприятно сознавать, что есть кто-то, кто там не сидит и сидеть не хочет. И более того, осмеливается указывать им на тот факт, что они сидят в дерьме, а он - нет. И они готовы положить массу усилий на то, чтобы либо его в дерьмо затащить и сделать "как все", либо, если уж это невозможно, хотя бы объявить, что он на самом деле сидит там же, где они, либо хочет к ним, но не может. Hа бытовом языке это называется жалкие отмазки, а на медицинском - защитный психологический механизм."
YuN

[Diana1]

Ниагарский водопад - общее название трех водопадов, отделяющий американский штат Нью-Йорк от канадской провинции Онтарио.



Ниагарский водопад:
1) Водопад «Подкова» (Horseshoe Falls), иногда называется Канадским водопадом (Canadian Falls)
2) Американский водопад (American Falls)
3) Водопад «Фата»

Хотя перепад высот и не очень велик, водопады очень широки, и по объёму проходящей через него воды Ниагарский водопад — самый мощный в Северной Америке. Высота водопадов составляет 53 метра. Подножие Американского водопада заслоняет нагромождение камней, из-за чего его видимая высота — только 21 метр. Ширина Американского водопада — 323 метра, водопада «Подкова» — 792 метра. Объём падающей воды достигает 5700 и более м³/с.

Американский водопад (слева) и водопад «Фата» (справа):



Канадский водопад «Подкова»: